Depends on who is being restricted. let's say a teen comes home
from a hard day at school. he has good grades, never gets in trouble, always
gets his homework and chores done, so he likes to play some videos games for
about two or three hours a day, depending on if he has plans to hang out with
friends or family. he has self control, self discipline, and responsibility, so
his mom telling him he can only play for an hour a day is a bit absurd.
Next door is another teen. He NEVER finishes his homework, stays
up WAY too late, so he sleeps during class, never does his chores, and even
rarely takes a shower. he lazes around, never leaves the house unless he's
required to, and often fakes sick to try and get out of school. why? because he
literally plays his video games CONSTANTLY. they have become such an extreme
addiction, it has taken over his life. he's unhealthy, irresponsible, and has
no work ethic. HE needs to be limited to one hour a day by his parents, because
this obsession is a problem.
I could barely do anything in one hour, especially when you play
games like skyrim with tones of load screens, lots of multiplayer with lobby
rooms, and occasional times where I glitch out, etc. Other than those, my
accomplishments on games were very little. I was pressured to take the games
too seriously and focus on rushing through them without relaxing and enjoying
them. My parents didn't care that I played sports, spent 8 hours per day at
school, went out all the time on weekends.
One hour just sucks. The only time people should set hourly limits
is if they have really bad habits. If they don't, parents need to just need to
keep a fair play rule, where they play games when they want, but they must
complete homework first, do their chores, eat meals properly, and go out every
so often. They also need to take breaks every hour, and if they have been on
for hours at a time, the parents should decide that they need to go and do
something else.
Parents don't understand that the gaming industry has changed
DRAMATICALLY. and they don't understand that gaming doesn't have to be just a
hobby. there are legitimate Esport competitions for hundreds thousands of
dollars. and you can barely do anything in an hour. and it feels like a lot
less time for the people playing. "Time flies when your having fun"
so yes, I think that it is pretty stupid. but if parents insist on a time
limit. 3-3 and a half hours sounds pretty reasonable. Unless the child is
immature or very young like 4-10.
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